FAQs for Cougars & MILFs

At Cougar Meets, we're proud of our huge database of experienced and sexy older women. Some of our Cougars have dated younger men/ cubs in the past, some enjoy casual hookups, some are looking for something steady, and many are just getting started in the cougar dating scene.

We've put together some common questions from newbie Cougars that have recently joined Cougar Meets. You'll find plenty of ready and willing younger guys here but before you start searching, give these tips a read!

• Who are these younger guys, can they really fulfil my needs and will they judge me for being a loose woman?
  
  First of all, don’t be shy!!! It's understandable that you'll be a little unsure at first – we advise you to stay open minded and remember, before anything else this is about fun. The guys on cougarmeets.com are all fun and all interested in you – they wouldn't be here otherwise. You are their fantasy, so be yourself and see what happens. If you like naughty fun with cubs then you won't be disappointed!
• What if I fall for one of the young men on cougarmeets? What if one falls for me?
  
  It's true that just because he's a young man it doesn’t mean you won’t want more than just sex. It's also true that the guys in this site may want more from you. Although most of our CougarMeets members sign up for flirty no-strings fun, Cougar / Cub relationships do happen. You just need to read our twitter feed to see that. So we'd advise you keep your feelings in check during first meetings, as this is predominantly a site for hookups. But if you happen to meet someone you click with, see where it goes. There are no limitations here!
• Do I need to 'hunt' men like the cougar name suggests?
  
  Absolutely not! First of all don't put too much emphasis on the term 'cougar' or 'MILF'. Some women like them, some find them a little silly. Being a cougar is about being a strong, hot and sexual female being. Sure, if you want to do the searching and message sending that's cool, but we find that the guys on cougarmeets.com do most of the chasing so don’t put pressure on yourself to make any first moves. Add some sexy pictures to your Cougar Meets profile and let the men approach you for flirty fun!
• How do I know what to expect?
  
  If you're reading this then you're clearly already into the idea of hooking up with fit and energetic young guys. Younger men have a simple but significant effect on older women - they keep them feeling young and beautiful. If you’re looking for true romance or love with a guy of ANY age then CougarMeets probably isn't the site for you. But chances are you've tried that route before – dating a guy your own age, getting ready to settle down, only to be faced with the prospect of living out your remaining years in a boring and passionless relationship. CougarMeets offers you an alternative. This is a vibrant community of older women in their prime meeting up with guys that appreciate and even worship them. There’s no doubt that younger guys can breathe new energy into your sex life, maybe even into your life as a whole. We can tell you for sure that it’s more fun to date guys on CougarMeets than it would be to date a guy your own age!

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